We tend to pair our existential experience and identities with that of the development of the first phase of intellectual sovereignty, but if you’re really seeking freedom, these other levels of sovereignty are important to experience, too.
Read MoreI think what matters can't yet be measured and I don't look at ROI as a two way transaction.
Read MoreIf you had a tool that could reallocate negative energy to somewhere more productive, wouldn't you want to get mastery in using it?
Read MoreWhether you’re willing to acknowledge this fact or not, we are emotionally driven beings. Taking action requires emotion. So don’t you think it’s about time you started paying attention to how you feel?
Read MoreWe're inclined to think that finding love is sort of like winning the lottery. I hear my clients say all the time that there aren't enough good men or women out there, that you have to be careful about whom you invest in, that dating is so hard, yadda yadda yadda.
Read MoreThinking that a boundary means withholding your love and putting up a protective barrier is a fallacy. You can't take away love from someone else.
Read MoreWhen we see our partners or potential suitors as projects, we create the very thing we’re trying to prevent, and repel the thing we want the most in partnership.
Read MoreMy heart broke into a million pieces knowing I had hurt him while trying to protect myself. In that moment I knew I only had one choice: tell him what I was so afraid of.
Read MoreAre you so sensitive that you feel like you need to protect yourself from toxic people or otherwise have your feelings accommodated in order to experience connection?
Read MoreTransformation is our birthright. It is our essence. It is who we are. To be out of alignment with this reality causes destruction in our bodies and in our spirits.
Read MoreThree places where you’re probably out of integrity and what to do about it.
Read MoreLoyalty is the toxic mimic of devotion, and my dear lover, we are being called to worship.
Read MoreI was once reminded, as a person who cares passionately about most things I do, that We All Have an Eternity. Not everyone is going to wake up tomorrow, or even in this lifetime.
Read MoreLet go of what you think others are doing and ask yourself: am I really living my best life, or can I do better?
Read MoreThe first time I almost died was while I was river rafting down the White Salmon River in the spring of 1991. I was 9.
Read MoreI had, in my early childhood development, conflated angst and fear with love. And so I was hyper vigilant in my connections with people whom I got close with, and it would literally drive me crazy.
Read MoreI spent 12 years working in the financial industry, and the fundamental thing that is missing is more people with a background from the arts & humanities.
Read MoreAnd it doesn't matter how eloquent you are, people can feel your judgment. And judgment feels like shit.
Read MoreAccording to all the books, our sensory input can be compartmentalized. According to my experience, this is just a symptom of someone's desperate need to control something that is difficult to understand and is largely still a mystery.
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